someone said that he admired those people who stayed on because they were strong, and said those who left were weak.

for that moment, i agreed with him.

but looking back, don't you think those who wanted to leave, and fought to leave were strong too? warped as it may sound, but have you ever considered it from their viewpoint? you can judge them morally, ethically, whatever. you can say they are weak, whatever. but at the end of the day, if out is what they want, what they got, and they are happy, nothing you say, will ever take it away. nor will it prove their weakness. i think they are strong, simply because it takes a lot of conviction. to take that leap.

on the otehr hand, those who stayed...what if tehy just somehow stayed on? what if the reason why they stayed on was because they couldnt make up their mind if they wanted to be in or out? what if they just din have the guts to say they wanted out? arent they weak then?

i am not really referring to ashley cole. but his case does come to mind.

have you ever looked at a painting from another angle?