a conversation

'won't you ask me if i am seeing someone?'

'any reason why i should be?'

'i don't know how to phrase it...'

'cos if you are, then maybe we shouldn't be having a meal together or something like that?'

'yeah, something like that.'

'well, i think there is no problem, because i am not looking for anything. unless you are confident that you can change that. but then, that would be your worry, not mine.'